When you get married does everything you possess become half your spouses or does your time remain your own?
Being
a married woman is hard sometimes and I need what I call my "sane time"
in order to stay sane. My "sane time" is the time I spend away from my
husband and children, free from housework and all responsibilities.
Just time that I spend with my friends laughing and being merry. Is
that really too much to ask for? I recently had a conversation with two
important people in my life who feel like married woman should not go
to nightclubs. We'll call them John and Jane Doe. :o)
When women are married should they stop going to nightclubs??
Should I
really have to trade in time with my girls for movie nights at home?
Jane Doe thinks the decision to stop going to nightclubs shows
maturity. So, am I immature for going? If my bills are paid, my
children are asleep, my husband is tended to and my work for the day is
done, why is it a problem? A LOT of my time is devoted to three other
people. I'd say 85% of my time is devoted to them, 10% is devoted to
sleep and the rest is devoted to me. Is that fair? When you say I do
are you really saying, I do agree to give up everything I love because
I'm married? Or is it okay for a woman to take time for herself? John
Doe says ONLY single women should go out to nightclubs. If a married
women or a women in a relationship is out at that time she is sending a
message that she wants to be hit on. I think that is crazy. How
can someone who I don't know assume because I am somewhere that is not
exclusive to single people, that I want to be approached. If I am
wearing my wedding ring and not interacting with anyone but the women
that I came with THAT should send a message as well as far as I'm
concerned. I just don't know anymore. Is my time my own??
*Be Dazzlinggg*
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